FLASHBACK:
Several months ago, going to church, while riding the Fruitbearers Van I've mention to a churchmate that i will be featuring Genesis sa aking blog. As i was sharing to her some of the details, bigla na lang pumasok sa isip ko si Lala. Sabi ko sa isip ko, after Genesis, sya nman ang next na magiging starring sa aking blog. And, this is it... after almost a year na yata of not being able to post eh..eto na po sya. The eligible bachelorette of Simbulan Family,
Miss Claraflor Simbulan Serafico commonly known as Lala.
When and where did i met her?
Saan nga ba? Not really sure where exactly pero i guess sa Regai year 2007. Nakilala ko sya sa isang gawain sa simbahan kung saan kami ay magkasama. Several months ago, going to church, while riding the Fruitbearers Van I've mention to a churchmate that i will be featuring Genesis sa aking blog. As i was sharing to her some of the details, bigla na lang pumasok sa isip ko si Lala. Sabi ko sa isip ko, after Genesis, sya nman ang next na magiging starring sa aking blog. And, this is it... after almost a year na yata of not being able to post eh..eto na po sya. The eligible bachelorette of Simbulan Family,
Miss Claraflor Simbulan Serafico commonly known as Lala.
When and where did i met her?
Why feature her? That is the question...
Bakit nga ba? Ang tema ngayon ng aking topic ay ang pagiging single ng isang dalaga on her early 30's. Bakit nga ba? Ano bang prublema kung single ka pa din. Singleness is a gift. Hindi mo kailan man kailangang magmadali pag pagibig ang paguusapan. Darating din ang tamang oras at tao ayon sa kalooban ng Panginoon. Tanong, Bakit ko nga ba napili si Lala? At ang kasagutan ko ay, dahil nakita ko sa kanya na OKEY lang. Maaring napipigil ang sarili nyang kaligayahan or desisyon sa larangan ng pagibig pero... ang maganda sa kanya ay bukas ang kanyang isip at puso sa pakikinig sa mga paalala ng ibang tao, ng mga nakakatanda. At hindi sya nagpapa pressure sa mga tuksuhan, biruan, etc.
Ano ba ang pagkakakilala ko kay Lala?
Si Lala masasabi ko ay simpleng tao...halata mo naman ang pagiging isang simple ng tao simula sa kanyang kilos hanggang sa kanyang pananamit, pananalita.. masasabi mo na simple lang sya. And yan ang gusto ko sa kanya. Hindi sya magiging mahirap para sa isang tao na pakisamahan siya dahil wala syang ERE sa katawan. Si Lala ay nakasama ko na sa napakaraming pag-aaral. Kasabay ko syang natapos ang NLD, kasabay ko syang natapos ang Growing Strong, kasabay ko syang naging staff ng Life Agape, kasabay ko syang humayo, kasabay ko syang magturo, kasabay ko syang magplano sa mga events... abah... close pala tayo Lala?! Hehehehe Minsan ako ay may nakausap sabi nya kawawa naman si Lala, kase ilang taon na sya wala pa syang boyfriend. hmmm... Lala hindi ko na sasabihin kung sino nagsabi ha! Hahahaha Anyway, ngayon ko lang pinagmumunimuni - na oo, maaring at her age wala pa syang steady boyfriend pero hindi sya kawawa. Mas kawawa yung mga taong masyadong apektado sa pagiging single nila. Isang artista ang naalala ko, si Agot Isidro, buryong buryo ako noon sa kanya sa kakasabi nya noon sa mga interviews na..."at 31 i'm still single." Sa aking palagay noon, pinamamalita nya na single pa sya para malaman ng mga bachelors, ganon ba yun? Mabait, simple, masunurin, malakas ang loob, maaasahan, may kusang palo, may takot sa Diyos, tapat kung magmahal... yan ang pagkakakilala ko kay Lala.
Kayo ba, gusto nyo ding makilala si Lala? Ilang mga katanungan din ang aking inihanda para mas makilala natin si Lala, or para masabi ko na makilala siya ng ibang tao...specially ng Singles Ministry.
1. Lala, taga saan ka ba sa Pilipinas?
Bakit nga ba? Ang tema ngayon ng aking topic ay ang pagiging single ng isang dalaga on her early 30's. Bakit nga ba? Ano bang prublema kung single ka pa din. Singleness is a gift. Hindi mo kailan man kailangang magmadali pag pagibig ang paguusapan. Darating din ang tamang oras at tao ayon sa kalooban ng Panginoon. Tanong, Bakit ko nga ba napili si Lala? At ang kasagutan ko ay, dahil nakita ko sa kanya na OKEY lang. Maaring napipigil ang sarili nyang kaligayahan or desisyon sa larangan ng pagibig pero... ang maganda sa kanya ay bukas ang kanyang isip at puso sa pakikinig sa mga paalala ng ibang tao, ng mga nakakatanda. At hindi sya nagpapa pressure sa mga tuksuhan, biruan, etc.
Ano ba ang pagkakakilala ko kay Lala?
Si Lala masasabi ko ay simpleng tao...halata mo naman ang pagiging isang simple ng tao simula sa kanyang kilos hanggang sa kanyang pananamit, pananalita.. masasabi mo na simple lang sya. And yan ang gusto ko sa kanya. Hindi sya magiging mahirap para sa isang tao na pakisamahan siya dahil wala syang ERE sa katawan. Si Lala ay nakasama ko na sa napakaraming pag-aaral. Kasabay ko syang natapos ang NLD, kasabay ko syang natapos ang Growing Strong, kasabay ko syang naging staff ng Life Agape, kasabay ko syang humayo, kasabay ko syang magturo, kasabay ko syang magplano sa mga events... abah... close pala tayo Lala?! Hehehehe Minsan ako ay may nakausap sabi nya kawawa naman si Lala, kase ilang taon na sya wala pa syang boyfriend. hmmm... Lala hindi ko na sasabihin kung sino nagsabi ha! Hahahaha Anyway, ngayon ko lang pinagmumunimuni - na oo, maaring at her age wala pa syang steady boyfriend pero hindi sya kawawa. Mas kawawa yung mga taong masyadong apektado sa pagiging single nila. Isang artista ang naalala ko, si Agot Isidro, buryong buryo ako noon sa kanya sa kakasabi nya noon sa mga interviews na..."at 31 i'm still single." Sa aking palagay noon, pinamamalita nya na single pa sya para malaman ng mga bachelors, ganon ba yun? Mabait, simple, masunurin, malakas ang loob, maaasahan, may kusang palo, may takot sa Diyos, tapat kung magmahal... yan ang pagkakakilala ko kay Lala.
Kayo ba, gusto nyo ding makilala si Lala? Ilang mga katanungan din ang aking inihanda para mas makilala natin si Lala, or para masabi ko na makilala siya ng ibang tao...specially ng Singles Ministry.
1. Lala, taga saan ka ba sa Pilipinas?
Nabua, Camarines Sur. Bikol Region..
It's more fun in the Philippines and yet it's much more fun in my hometown. Masayang mag stay sa amin kasi aside from fresh ang air saka green ang paligid, malapit din kami sa beaches and madaming man-made resorts nearby. We are also near the Majestic Mayon and just a few hours' drive to the paradise of Caramoan Island. Pagdating sa tourist attraction, napaka accessible nang mga tourist spot sa'amin. We're only few hours' drive also to another blissful place known as the Misibis Bay.
Napaka madaming magagandang tanawin sa'min plus take note that Bikol region serves many of the best delicacies of Filipino cuisines.
Kaya CamSouth, Cam Sur… I trust anyone shall enjoy staying in our hometown!!!
3. Saan ka ba nag graduate at anong kurso ang kinuha mo? Bakit?
I graduated with the degree of Bachelor of Science in Food Service and Institutional Management. Dream ko kasi noon na mag trabaho sa Hotel or sa eroplano kaya I pursued the course. I'm an Isabelina, nag graduate ako sa Universidad de Sta Isabel in Naga City, 45 mins drive from my hometown.
4. What made you decide to work abroad? Was it an easy decision for you? Are there other options/offers other than Kuwait?
Thinking to work abroad was not a struggle, in fact excited pa nga ako because of my wrong connotation that time, kala ko kasi pag OFW madami at madali ang pera. To earn more was my main reason why I came here but eventually I realized na hindi pala yun ganun. Of option, I did not had any opportunity to work to other countries. Kuwait lang talaga. Nonetheless, I'm enjoying my years here in Kuwait and I'm not looking forward to go to other countries to work.
5. Have you ever worked in the Philippines? If yes, what was it like compared to working here abroad. Please elaborate.
Yes, I was working in Honda Prestige Inc. – Iriga Branch before I came here. Nag resigned ako noong papunta na ko dito. Masaya mag work sa Pinas pero okey rin naman dito. I don't want to compare kasi parehas nman may disadvantage and advantages in both ends. Well, practically when we will talk about compensation, I guess much well-paid dito rather than sa Pinas. But you'll have much freedom working in your own country.
6. Mag flash back tayo, natatandaan mo pa ba noong una kang umalis? Sino nag hatid sayo? Umiyak ka ba?
Si Pay Badong, Si Digoy, yung mga bata na malalaki na ngayon, pero sa bus terminal lang nila ko hinatid, to the airport till here ang kasama ko ay si Ate Mabel, town mate namin and she's working in MOH. Hindi ako umiyak, all I can re-call is medyo worried ako kung ano yung dadatnan ko dito. I came here through visit visa, so may pressure na dapat maka hanap ako nang work and ma-transfer to working visa before my visit visa expires.
OO, first time kong maka pasok sa eroplano. Ansaya lang nang feeling na dati natatanaw mo lang lagi yung eroplano tapos sinasabi mo pa sa sarili mo na balang araw sasakay din ako dyan and finally yun.., nakasakay ka din, parang dream come true. Overwhelming yung feeling. Wala naman akong nagawang "funny things" kahit first time kasi Ate Mabel was with me. She's guiding me what to do. Pero cguro if mag isa lang ako na nag travel, probably I could do embarrassing or stupid things even
8. Anong pinangako mo sa mga magulang mo, kapatid, noong umalis ka? Natupad mo ba?
I promise to provide for my Lola a monthly allowance; so far natupad nman, continous pa din till now though there are times na suma-sablay ako sa pag papadala.. Another thing, nag promise din ako na bibilhan ko yung bahay nang malaking gas range.., at yun and di ko pa natutupad!!! pero hindi ko naman nakakalimutan yun- hopefully in the coming years matupad ko din and besides hindi naman yun urgent.
9. May time frame ka ba na nakaset para sa pagtatrabaho mo sa abroad?
"OO naman, ayoko na dito tumanda. I'm planning to stay here for 5 years more - maximum.
At age of 30, with the Grace of God, in few months tapos ko na mahulugan yung Lot ko sa Carmeltown, Canlubang. And I'm able also to take part/ venture in a newly established Corporation. We are looking forward to open a coffee shop sa Pinas this year plus God willing maka pag franchise din kami sa isang growing fastfood chain sa pinas.
11. Aside from your work what makes Lala busy?
Yung totoo? Facebook and Viber.
12. Would you advice single ladies to go out, step out and work abroad?
Not at all, for me if they are Single and having good work sa Pinas, there's no need to step out. But if they feel or they have the dream to work abroad, it will be fine, they could pursue that dream. They just have to be mentally and emotionally prepared once they decided to work abroad.
In 7 years of working here, I've learn that It's not the nationality of the person that makes them difficult to deal with, but yung character mismo nung tao… Merong Locals or other immigrants here na madaling pakisamahan and meron din naman na super simply annoying lang talaga!! But as you go along with them natutunan din nating mag adjust sa kanila. To stay here long dapat talaga you know by heart that "Patience is a Virtue."
Currently, I'm thankful sa present work ko…. Okey nman ang mga colleagues ko and most of the times they are cooperative.
14. Naranasan mo na bang laitin, maliitin ng ibang lahi? If yes pano mo ito hinarap?
Hindi ako sure kung pang mamaliit nang matatawag yun, somehow I feel lang na parang walang tiwala sakin yung new boss ko noon, for me it means he's underestimating my ability. I was then working in a hotel for about 5 years. While on a vacation, the top management of the hotel terminated our GM, who happened to be my direct boss and replaced him with a local. Pag balik ko bago na yung boss ko, most of what I am doing mali parati sa kanya (sa new GM) and it really frustrates me. Paano ko yun hinarap, After a month of dealing w/ him nag file ako nang Resignation ko!!! It could be na, it's not the right decision that time, alam ko na hindi din ako naka pag isip nang maayos noon, but thank God he carry me through and nakahanap agad ako nang nalipatan.
15. Ilang taon ka na ba dito sa Kuwait? Masaya ka ba dito? Anong masasabi mo tungkol sa Kuwait? Sa kultura, sa klima...
Almost 7 and half years. Okey lang ang Kuwait. Unpredictable and klima, hindi ko masyadong like yung sandstorm pag nag cha-change yung climate. Pero maganda din ang kultura nila especially that Kuwaitis are family oriented, yun ang gustung gusto ko sa kanila… frustrating lang yung belief nang marami sa kanila.
16. Lala given a chance na makapag sponsor ka ng mahal sa buhay, sino ang gusto mong dalhin dito at bakit? At saan mo sya unang ipapasyal?
Yung Tito ko na Papa nung mga pinsan ko. Lima yung anak nya na nag ta trabaho dito, it would be good for him to visit them here. Sa Kuwait Tower cguro, kasi pati ako hndi pa nakapasok doon so, sabay na kaming papasyal doon.
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| with cousins during our churchmate's wedding reception |
We've been apart for about 2 1/2 years now, few months after our break-up nawalan na kami nang communication. Mahirap mag maintain nang communication with someone na dati special yung treatment mo sa kanya, na dati kasama siya sa mga pangarap mo then in a sudden u'll realize na magka iba na kayo nang path na tinatahak, Casual Conversation will not work I believe for those na may malalim na pinagsamahan. Mahihirapan lang ako mag move on kung may communication pa din ako sa kanya, if I'll be talking to him parati, possible na aasa lang ako na maayos ulit yung relasyon namin. kaya, when I decided to let him go… I totally let him.
18. Masasabi mo bang naka pag move on ka na? Ano ang mga ginawa mong hakbang para makapag move on?
"!!! (Thanks God) napaka-hirap nung process of moving on, I really endure the pain. pero move-on-move-on lang din pag may time. Ano nga ba yung mga ginawa ko,. Let me remember..,
First, I sincerely prayed and cried out to the Lord. I was honest sa Panginoon sa nararamdaman ko . I asked for His help to go through it, na sana alisin nya yung pain and sana INSTANTLY sana pag gising ko wala na yung sakit. God answers my prayers hndi nga lang instant but gradually as I keep on praying unti-unti nawala din yung pain. As I keep on praying, natututunan kong tanggapin yung season ko of being broken-hearted and as I draw near to Him, I was being assured of more satisfying love.
Secondly, naka tulong sakin yung message na narining ko one Friday night sa Fruibearers Church, God spoke through her servant, kumurot talaga sa puso ko yung "Sometimes God breaks our heart in order to break the things that break His heart." - It's been a year pero hirap pa din akong mag move on noon, after hearing the message, I marvel on God was probably or surely broke my heart because I was breaking His heart, for sure nasasaktan ko na ang Panginoon because my relationship with the man was no longer pleasing Him.., after all we are of not the same faith and clear ang Lord sa command nya. Do not yoke yourself with an unbeliever. So, I accepted and embraced that season. I've teached myself to hold on sa pangako nang Panginoon.
And I continue to hold on to Him, I trust and hold on God's promise that He will not withhold any good thing to those who earnestly seek Him… Seeking and Serving Him become a part of my life even after I realized na naka move-on na ko. Throughout, I believe yung pag move-on ko, it was a personal and corporate effort of acceptance and company of Beings who truly loves me. The people who really cares for where there, there were times na kahit nag e-emo and alam ko na nakakainis na ko but they allow me to grieve. Kaya, thankful ako sa lahat nang tao na tinulungan ako sa pag mo-move on ko.
19. At your age, hindi ka ba naapektuhan pag may mga mag boboyfriend girlfriend ka na nakikitang namamasyal? Naisip mo ba na sana may ka holding hands ka din.
I've said earlier, that I'm 30 and I'm proud I am…
Bakit naman ako maapektuhan?, of course there's a desire of me to be in relationship and to be married soon even, but why should I be affected of the relationship of others? In fact kinikilig nga ako lalo na't kilala ko yung magkasintahan, I have faith that there's a HEART somewhere out there that God is saving for me (nakss) at kung naiisip ko ba na sana may ka holding-hands din ako – Honestly, hindi ko na masyado naiisip yun ngayon, guess as you age, nag iiba din yung pananaw natin sa relationship. I've realized lately that whether I walked hand in hand with a lover today or just laughed with my single friends while sipping our coffee or I just stay at home, at the end of the day I can count thousands of reason to sleep happy. One more thing, there's a time for everything, a time to love.. a time to have a relationship, a time to kiss and time to hold someone's hand… Kasama yun. My Time will come.
20. Ano ba ang hinahanap mo SANA sa isang lalaki? Meron na bang nagpapahiwatig sayo?
Meron din naman yet still praying.
Yung unang una sa checklist ko is of course:
- He should be a believer and follower of Christ, (in that context) magkaiba kasi ang believer and follower, a lot of guys believe in Jesus but they don't want to follow Him. I'm praying to marry someone na makakasama ko in serving Him.
- And other extra qualities na hinahanap ko is sana gentle na may sense of humor, passive kasi ako saka medyo boring kaya I want to be with someone na magaan kasama, yung madami kang mapupulot na aral pag kausap mo siya, may sense tapos masaya pa, pero it's a minor characteristic, of course above the list is yung Follower of Christ talaga.
21. KUNG may manliligaw sayo, ano ba ang gusto mong present na matanggap at bakit?
"Something edible (hahaha) - mapapakinabangan ko yun pati nung mga taong nasa paligid ko… But of course much more of any material present, I love to receive the gift of time, for me yung effort to see me and just to be with me is plus plus plus pogi points!!!
22. Para sa iyo Lala, ano ba yung idea mo ng sweet na pagbibigay ng regalo?
Siguro, yung na so sorpresa ka na lang bigla, ay may gift ka.., it could be sweet. But for me when the gift is given with a sincere heart is always the sweetest.
I've received na color red and white even pink and yellow and the feeling actually varies depends on the giver and not on the color of the flower. But of course we always equate flowers with sincerity; kaya kahit anong kulay at kahit sino may kilig pa din! pero this time parang gusto ko nang GREEN or pwede ding blue kasi favorite color ko yun.
Thank God that nowadays hindi na yan uso sa church compare before na (ufff) part na yatah nang fellowhip ang tuksuhan at hndi lang yun minsan.., madami ding beses. Akward kaya yung feeling, nakaka ilang and I really don't like, or honesty I hate na tinu tukso ako. Perhaps because I don't like the feeling kaya cguro hndi din ako nadala. Beside sabi din mismo ni Pastor Jun Nones na one of the pitfalls in marriage is yung nagpakasal lang dahil nadala sa tuksuhan.
"My ideal age of marrying is at 28 and to raise children by 30 and obviously I pass it through already. So anytime pwede na!!"
26. Kung ikaw ay makapag-asawa at hilingin sayo ng iyong mister na tumigil ka na lang sa bahay at hwag ng magtrabaho, papayag ka ba? Bakit?
That could be a tough decision. Pero kung ako yung masusunod I don't want to stop working. Gusto ko na nagta trabaho and kumikita din. I'm aware that woman as wives they've been created to be "help-meet" while the husband is the "head." I admire yung mga housewife na nasa bahay lang and faithfully doing the household chores daily, but for me helpmeet doesn’t mean you have to be in the house only doing the housekeeping and be the primary responsible of raising children. In fact, I believe responsibility yun nang tatay, as Protection and Provision is his task. Anyway, sakali man, (God willing) maka pag asawa na ako and have to face this tough decision, I wish to talk the matter through with my husband, I'll listen to his reason and hope he'll consider my insights too but in the end I'll respect my husband decision. He's the "HEAD" diba so the authority/ decision should come from him pa din.
I don’t feel I'm missing out or nahuhuli na ko sa biyahe, in fact I'm enjoying the season still. I remember what Pastor Clem told us "singles" during a seminar, he said that "Singlehood is good and it's normal. – There’s nothing to be ashamed, embarrassed or to be afraid. Singleness is not a curse, it's a blessings.
Hence it's a blessing therefore I shouldn't be afraid. I know that I am where I am now because that’s where God wants me to be, I keep on reminding myself of what CS Lewis said “I am sure God keeps no one waiting unless He sees that it is good for him to wait” perhaps I am still single because God is still happy to see me single. I know my God well and I trust Him.
Isa pa getting married or being in a relationship is not the ultimate thing, it's not my ultimate purpose., it's not the only source of happiness, it’s just one facet of my life. Sabi one time sa akin ni Ate Zeny,
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| with Ate Zeny Alim |
sa heaven daw wala nang mag asawa doon.. lahat na tayo magkakapatid, napapaisip tuloy ako.., If I won’t be able to take my marriage to heaven naman pala, why I should be bothered much of not getting married at this age. In heaven lahat tayo bride nang Panginoon and I believe that's the ultimate thing.
28. Lala, gusto ko lang malaman. Masaya ka ba na sinunod mo ang advise ng iba at iniwas mo ang iyong sarili sa isang tao na sa tingin nila ay hindi bagay para sa iyo.
Noong una hindi. Parang pakiramdam ko noon lahat sila kontrabida sa lovelife ko, feeling ko noon ayaw nila ko na maging Masaya… hahaha
Pero ngayon I think I'll just be forever GRATEFUL sa kanila na nagbigay nang kanilang unsolicited advice during those time na litong-lito o at sobrang confused ako sa feelings ko.
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| with Fruitbearers Family |
After sometimse nauntog din naman ako and I realized why and why ganun yung reactions nila. MAHAL lang talaga nila ko kaya they don't give up of me kahit na tigas-tigas ulo ko noon. Kaya ngayon, pwedeng pang-shout, "Masayang Masaya ako."
29. Pwede ka bang mag iwan ng inspiring message para sa mga kadalagahan na waiting pa rin...
Let me quote what a pretty friend said one time while posting our picture sa facebook and describing Singlehood, her caption reads:
Being single used to mean that nobody wanted you. Now it means you’re pretty sexy and you’re taking your time deciding how you want your life to be and who you want to spend it with!
To single ladies, don't
believe on the lie that you're not pretty because no one pursues you. You are
Pretty, You're Sexy. Take your time; enjoy the season of singlehood, ponder on
how you really want to spend your life and with whom you really want to spend
it. Listen to the Father's command, don't yoke yourself with unbeliever. Don't
be in hurry. Don't settle for second-best.
WAIT. You are worth the wait. Don't be in a relationship because you just want
your facebook status to be updated, to trend and get 100 likes. Don't feel your
missing out. There's a heart God is saving for you. Be patient. And even if God
blesses you with Singleness for lifetime, there will be nothing wrong with
that. Our Call is this: "To worship and praise God" and
it's the best thing to do while waiting for our God-knows-who, His Gift. While waiting, remember His promise in
Jeremiah 29:11 – He has a plan for you. Take delight in the LORD, and he will
give you the desires of your heart. Our God loves us too much; He will not withhold anything that's
good for us. TRUST Him. His Love alone satisfies.
Matapos nating mabasa ang mga naging kasagutan ni Lala sa aking mga tanong, tulad ko din ba kay na, mas lalo humanga sa kanya? Kahit ako, madaming natutunan sa kanyang mga ibinahagi sa atin.
Sa touching side.. ummmm like na like ko yung #17 & #18, sa part na ito mararamdaman mo ang lakas na nakuha ni Lala sa pagtitiwala nya sa Panginoon. Nakakatuwang balik balikan ang mga isinagot nya dito. Maganda din yung sagot nya sa #26
In fact, I believe responsibility yun nang tatay, as Protection and Provision is his task. Anyway, sakali man, (God willing) maka pag asawa na ako and have to face this tough decision, I wish to talk the matter through with my husband, I'll listen to his reason and hope he'll consider my insights too but in the end I'll respect my husband decision. He's the "HEAD" diba so the authority/ decision should come from him pa din.
Lala, Ikaw na talaga!
Originally, ang title ng entry ko na ito ay DONT RUSH but in as i was about to end...decided to dedicate this to you and dahil ikaw naman ang bida dito. Lubus lubusin na natin....
My March 16, 2014 blog entry is entitled Claraflor.
Isang verse po ang nais kong iwan sa inyong mga dalaga at binata...
1 Corinthians 7:32-35
New International Version (NIV)
32 I would like you to be free from concern. An unmarried man is concerned about the Lord’s affairs—how he can please the Lord. 33 But a married man is concerned about the affairs of this world—how he can please his wife— 34 and his interests are divided. An unmarried woman or virgin is concerned about the Lord’s affairs: Her aim is to be devoted to the Lord in both body and spirit. But a married woman is concerned about the affairs of this world—how she can please her husband. 35 I am saying this for your own good, not to restrict you, but that you may live in a right way in undivided devotion to the Lord.
Hindi ko po ito ibinahagi para sabihin sa inyong tanggapin na ang pagiging Single nyo. I mean, isa din po itong gift. Mahirap naman kase na para lang masabing nagkaasawa na tayo eh, kahit sino na lang sinagot na natin or nilagawan na natin. Pinag darasal ito. Mahirap namang magsisisi sa huli. Mamaya sa pagmamadali mo eh may iba palang nakalaan sayo ang Panginoon. Diba? Wait. Madali lang mag asawa. Ang mahirap yung mag-aasawa ka ng di ka pa handa, financially, mentally & spiritually.
Hindi ko po ito ibinahagi para sabihin sa inyong tanggapin na ang pagiging Single nyo. I mean, isa din po itong gift. Mahirap naman kase na para lang masabing nagkaasawa na tayo eh, kahit sino na lang sinagot na natin or nilagawan na natin. Pinag darasal ito. Mahirap namang magsisisi sa huli. Mamaya sa pagmamadali mo eh may iba palang nakalaan sayo ang Panginoon. Diba? Wait. Madali lang mag asawa. Ang mahirap yung mag-aasawa ka ng di ka pa handa, financially, mentally & spiritually.
